I imagined some debt specialist totting up my none-essential spending and telling me that this frivolous spending would have to stop... and so, I walked away flowerless... did my food shop and left the store...
Did it make me feel better? Did I feel that I was plugging the gaping hole between our income and expenditure? No. I felt miserable... When I left work, I sacrificed so much... clothes, nights out, make-up, trips to the hairdressers... anything that could be trimmed, was... But every girl needs a little something to put a smile on her face, and flowers do just that for me...
Someone left a comment last week telling me how their mother would leave fresh flowers in her room after cleaning it... This made me smile, and I conjured up an image in my mind of that scene... imagining that the woman would be reminded of this beautiful gesture, each time she brought fresh flowers... Now that's a memory you can't put a price on.
I want my little girls to grow up and remember picking flowers with me... I want them to think of me when they bring flowers into their homes... One of the most important things to me is creating a home... a place that will live in my children's minds long after they have flown the nest... are the flowers important in this picture?... Absolutely... So, I went back to the store and got my daughter to pick the flowers for this week... This is a memory I want her to have of me... of us... of our home...
My Friday Flower this week is dedicated to my sister. She has the mumps... poor thing! If I were home in Blighty, I'd be there to keep you company, read magazines with you, and fill your hot water bottle...
Have a great weekend all!
Lx
If you want to join in with Friday Flower, just use the linky widget below to link to your post and then pop over to the lovely Melissa and link with her too.
I'm so glad you went back. The girls did a fine job, mom. Deb =^..^=x5
ReplyDeleteare those spider mums? They are just beautiful and I couldn't agree with you more...it's such a little thing but it is so important. I always buy flowers on Friday too..;p
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful post and something that I often think about myself. I have also cut out all of those little luxuries so that we can get by until I finish Uni...I think flowers would be my one little luxury too. Lucky for me it is now Spring and I will have roses from the garden...at least for a little while. Your flowers are beautiful and even more so since your daughter chose them! Wishing your sister a quick recovery. Happy weekend Laura ~ Tina xx
ReplyDeleteI love this post - my daughter loves to pick flowers too. It is a wonderful memory for both of us.
ReplyDeleteWe had Toad In The Road yesterday at a local pub - I was thrilled to see it on the menu after your post! I also tried Bubble and Squeak and loved it.
I tagged you today in my post, if you would like to play :)
Have a great weekend
XO L
Hi Laura
ReplyDeleteWhen I first saw your post in my blog list and it said you had posted 3 hours ago - I though OMG she is up early - then brain went into gear and I realised it was late Thursday evening for you. You are right about flowers somehow I just have to have them in the house whatever! but I sometimes find if you go to the supermarkets late they reduce them and I got the most beautiful crimson roses yesterday for 45p!!!!! a bargain.
Miserable for your sister hope she gets better soon.
The girls choose well!
Jillx
Hi Laura,
ReplyDeleteLove your FF thinking today; you know that with this post, your daughters will have lifelong memories, because you put it into cyberspace for them so they can read it back. Precious!
Have a good one,
Maureen x
Oh, and the linky widget thingy is not there... xx
ReplyDeletewhat a beautiful post L....
ReplyDeletethose memories in the making with your gals truely are priceless...
i would rather not have the extra little luxuries and keep making the memories that count.....
have a wonderful weekend with your gals and your flowers....
melissa xxx
What a lovely, lovely post. When I lived in The UK I used to buy flowers every week and then the same thing happened - I couldn't justify it. Recently, husband and daughter have been going to a Sat Market and have been picking up some flowers to bring home. It makes my weekend. Enjoy x
ReplyDeleteLaura, I think you
ReplyDeleteare tuned in to just
the right choices, in
the scheme of a lifetime.
Your girls will always
remember those flowers
in the backdrop of their
memories! I am going to
cut down the last of my
zinnias, today, to bring
in before some fore-casted
cool weather moves in.
Next week may be a stem
from the grocer's!
Happy Friday and a hug!
xx Suzanne
a beautiful post and stunning pictures...i am sure you just made you sisters day.
ReplyDeletehappy weekend Laura
I love flowers in the house too...but like you, I often leave them at the shops because I can't justify the expense on such a tight budget. However, at least in the warm months I can cut my own blooms from my garden. And even in the winter I often cut branches of holly or evergreen to bring indoors.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the link up and I'm now following.
Blessings,
Alison
Flowers are worth their expense. Anything that brings joy to the spirit is priceless.
ReplyDeleteThese memories with our daughters are indeed priceless. Worth every penny! Mine are grown now. You will, however, have these memories.
ReplyDeleteBrenda
Oh, Laura, what a lovely sentiment. And I hear you, sweet one - I also baulk at the extra expense of buying flowers as we attempt to make do on a single income. Fortunately, our garden is producing some lovelies and my Dad has a green thumb so I can obtain some pleasure from him! Your girls are blessed to have you as their mum. J x
ReplyDeleteReferring to my earlier comment above, my kids got a big kick out of Toad In The Road. Oops! Toad in the Hole ;) we'll get a good chuckle at my expense for years to come
ReplyDeleteXO L
Hi there! Thanks so much for your birthday wishes, that was lovely. I would be happy to link up with a Friday Flower, I post them most weeks. You blog looks lovely but I can't believe you prefer Marmite to Vegemie!
ReplyDeleteps I have just talked myself out of going to the market to buy myself some flowers. Maybe I should reconsider?
I just grow plants in my house. That way I get the beauty without wasting to much money. I think plants are really good in terms of helping to keep the air clean in your home.
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